Photo of Dude by Rebecca Winters Keegan - Dude began life by having to stay off the bed. |
Save yourself and your animal the stress, the grief and ultimately, the futility of training him to stay off the couch, or sleeping on top of an unoccupied bed. He's too smart for that! He'll just wait until you leave home and jump up on them anyway.
Telling him to stay off the bed is an utter waste of your and your pet's time. Years ago our family dog was not allowed on a brand new couch, but at 7 am, when the alarm clock rang, the next sounds we heard were his feet hitting the living room floor ... that is unless he was sleeping at the foot of our bed. I mean, what are you going to do, lie awake all night? Trust me: After potty training, better to accept the arrangement. Your butt is tired. His butt is tired. At the end of the day, your dog will win this one!
Think of it this way, dogs and cats are like family. Treat them as such. They are meant to be indoors and treated like members of the household.
Good training with flexibility, including sharing a couch, is a win-win. Your dog is happy, and you get snuggles, cuddles and love!
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For me, this would be a "happy problem" to have. But my issues are that sometimes I like to go to sleep early like 8pm and what if the dog starts licking me and wants to go out? So, for now, no dog :-(
ReplyDeleteI think not getting a dog can be a responsibile decision. Do what’s best in your circumstances. Pet ownership is work. That said, a dog usually learns to keep your hours. If you go to bed early, so will he and get up with you.
DeleteDearest Debra,
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely are our pets family members!
We often joke about it as saying we too are being tolerated inside our home... they LIVE here!
Guess life is only complete with the addition of a loyal companion.
Hugs,
Mariette
In my childhood, some people kept their dogs outside in a doghouse, which seemed cruel in the winter, and since they were pets not working dogs on an estate, it was puzzling to me. Why get a pet then? I can also understand not wanting the inconvenience of owning a pet, so why get one?
DeleteIn many ways our dog was spoiled, yet well behaved.
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