Absolutely Beautiful High Jewelry

Harry Winston

We look at lots of eye candy during the holidays. My eye candy of choice is looking at high jewelry, a perk I get that comes with having to walk up or down Madison and 5th Avenues to leave or return home. Today I'll share some of that gorgeous eye candy I see with you. Let's call this Debra's Dream Jewelry, shall we? 🙂

Cleef & Arpels

Few of us could afford high jewelry and if we owned pieces so expensive, the cost of insuring and keeping them safe would undoubtedly complicate our lives. Moreover, unless we get invited to the Met Gala, where would we wear high jewelry? The celebrities who attend award shows are usually loaned their jewelry so when you have the lifestyle, you don't even have to shell out the money to buy it, but I digress.

DeBeers High Jewelry

A glimpse at these absolutely beautiful pieces gives us a boost of endorphins while costing us absolutely nothing.

Le Vian High Jewelry Collection

Le Vian also makes affordable fine jewelry sold at Macy's Herald Square, so if you like the design give Macy's Le Vian Jewelry in its fine jewelry department a browse. As I often say, first a dreamer, then a realist!

Lugano at the upscale preloved stores

Readers, you now understand very well what I must go through here in Manhattan just trying to make my way home.🙂

All these stunning jewels are for sale to folks with deep pockets. Which is your favorite?

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White Poke Cake Made Two Ways

Photo: Tasteful Recipes from Facebook

I haven't made a White Poke Cake -- once upon a time called an Angel Food Cake -- in years but this one is perfectly festive as a Christmas dessert, plus with an alternate custard topping it's suitable for the rest of the year. Perhaps I like the poke cake because I love custard pudding!

The recipe for the Christmas version, which is circulating on Facebook, uses cake mix, however, I never, ever buy cake mix. In my home, the rule is if you eat cake, either buy a good bakery cake or make one yourself. Every cake that enters your piehole must be worth its calories!!

For sure making a cake from scratch is as easy as opening a box of cake mix:

Ingredients for the White Cake Batter

½ cup butter softened
1 cup granulated sugar
4 large egg whites, room temperature
½ cup milk, room temperature
1½ cups all-purple flour (I never buy cake flour, but you can.)
2 teaspoons baking powder

1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/4 teaspoon almond extract

Directions:

1) With an electric mixer, cream together the butter and sugar.

2) Add the egg whites.

3) Pour in the milk and continue mixing.

4) Follow with the all-purple flour and baking soda.

5) Next pour in the vanilla and almond extract.

6) Bake in a prepared buttered 9-inch square baking pan in a preheated 350-degree F oven for 25 - 30 minutes or until the center is firm.

7) Remove the white cake from the oven. Let cool and remove from the pan while still warm. Next, sit aside to cool completely.

You could make a topping for this White Poke Cake any number of ways, but I'll give you two options. The first cranberry topping is festive for Christmas:

I. Cranberry Poke Cake Topping🎄🎁🔔

ingredients:

14 oz of cranberry sauce - either homemade or canned

1/2 cup water

1/4 cup sugar if it isn't already sweet (taste it and judge.)

Directions:

Simmer the ingredients in a stockpot on the stovetop until smooth and uniform in consistency. You'll pour the cranberry topping over your white poke cake (see #4 below).

The 2nd topping is for the rest of the year:

II. Vanilla-Almond Custard Poke Cake Topping🥛🥚🥛

Ingredients:

4 cups of milk

Photo: iStock

4 egg yolks

4 tablespoons all-purpose flour

1/2 cup sugar

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon almond extract

Directions:

1) Toss the milk, eggs, sugar, and flour into a stockpot on the stovetop and whisk together. [FYI: I get a smoother custard by blending these ingredients cold.] Stir occasionally while the mixture is heating up.

2) Bring to a boil and on medium heat continue whisking while simmering until the mixture thickens into a custard.

3) Near the end, add the vanilla and almond extracts and stir. Turn off the heat.

4) With a fork poke holes in the top of the cake. Pour your topping of choice on top of the cake. [I've never combined the cranberry and pudding toppings, but if I did I'd use straight cranberry sauce without thinning it with water on top of the custard which I'd pour into the holes of the cake first.🐪🐑]  

At Christmastime, you can use your 4 leftover egg yolks to make my pecan cookies, which I linked, or save them for a breakfast omelet. Waste not, want not.

5) Finish the cake with a dab of real whipped topping if you wish. The sweet creamy goodness only improves the cake.

Bon appètite!

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Shampoo, Conditioner And Soap Bars

Kitsch

There are many good reasons to buy bar soaps, shampoos, and conditioners. IMHO they make excellent pampering and practical gifts! Hint, hint!🎄

Bypassing liquid soaps, shampoos, and conditioners sold in plastic bottles is beneficial, i.e., great for the environment. Less plastic bottles filling up landfills.

I have this shampoo bar.

Bars are concentrated. Consumers skip paying for the water in liquid soap, shampoo, and condition. One bar of product often lasts 2 - 3 times longer than its liquid counterparts, saving you money!

In buying the various personal care bars, be sure to read labels to ensure the ingredients are natural or organic (backed up by an organic certification seal and/or a list of clean ingredients) and free of harmful chemicals such as sulfates and parabens that may be detrimental to human health, as well as, end up in our water supply.

Unlike their liquid peers, bars of soap, shampoo, and conditioner are ultra travel-friendly. You'll have less trouble fitting them into your suitcase or taking them on airplanes. You won't have to wait until you land to begin your vacation by looking for personal care products you like and can afford.

To get you started, here are 8 brands known for their good, clean ingredients, transparency, and minimal packaging to peruse:

EcoRoots

🧼 Ethique

🍃 Lush

🧼 EcoRoots

🍃 SheaMoisture

🧼 J.R. Liggett

🍃 Kitsch

🧼 Davines Love

🍃 Aari & Co.

According to the magazine Natural Awakenings which is free at health food stores, the use of bar soaps, shampoos, and conditioners is on the rise. It recommends keeping the bars dry in between uses to prolong the bars and to keep them hygienic. Keep in a soap dish with drainage holes or a reusable tin for storage. The bars are said to be as effective as liquid soap, shampoo, or conditioner. Says the article, "High-quality bars can produce an impressive leather."

Solid soap, shampoo, and condition for trips make thoughful holiday gifts that a giftee might not buy for themselves!

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Think Outside Of the Box For A Great Party Dress

By thinking outside of the box, I see 2 fabulous party dresses at Uniqlo, where customers usually go for awesome basics and casual clothing. But! Frequently timeless basics can be dressed up or down! 

Classic, inexpensive, and, comfortable, you'll need to pair each steal of a find with jewelry and dressy shoes to turn them into party attire, and then expect to dance the night away while festive and cozy hour after hour!

What's more, after the holidays you can still wear each versatile dress by dressing them down with boots or casual shoes.

The first one is Unqlo's Combination dress (see top image). Its fitted top is made of soft, contouring double-knit fabric. A long, flared silhouette in a tiered pleated skirt is made with satin crepe fabric. The material is a combination of polyester, cotton, and spandex. Cost: $19.90.

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The 2nd style is Uniqlo's Ribbed Dress -  It's a fitted knit dress that flatters the body's contours and has side slits to elevate the dress for dressier occasions. You can do a lot with this dress! Style the dress with a fancy belt or a long sparkly necklace if you wish. The fabric is 73% Polyester, 24% Rayon, 3% Spandex. Cost: $9.90.

Both dresses are very easy to move in; each can be machine-washed in cold water. Out of caution, I'd hang them up to dry. Think of the dry clothing bills you'll avoid!

Excellent quality, style, and prices -- a holiday trio almost too good to be true!!

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Garnier's Hair Honey Repairing Serum

I received a small complimentary product sample of Garnier's Hair Honey Repairing Serum, a leave-in hair remedy. I've been applying it after I step out of the shower before blow-drying my hair.

The Hair Honey Repairing Serum is blended with sustainably sourced acacia honey. It is non-greasy and non-sticky.

Reportedly it reduces up to 94% of split ends, gives us 6 times smoother hair, 4 times less breakage, and 20 times more moisture.

Garnier further claims it fights up to 1 year of surface damage plus provides heat protection up to 450 degrees. It's blended without parabens, phthalates, mineral oil, drying alcohols, dyes, and DMDM hydantoin. All of Garnier's products are marketed as cruelty-free and come in recycled bottles. 

I can say the Honey Repairing Serum leaves my hair clean with a mild pleasant scent and my hair looks conditioned and healthy after use. Since I also use a hair conditioner [this one right now], I put only about a dime-sized amount through my hair concentrating on the ends. The treatment product passes my hand test. When a hair conditioner or treatment feels clean on my hands, it always leaves my hair soft and clean too. 

Reasonably priced and available at drugstores, Walmart, Target, and Amazon, Garnier's Hair Honey Repairing Serum is a hair serum I like and recommend.

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Talk Show Product Deals Weariness

Photo: The Talk

Have you noticed? Product deals have become a major feature of morning and afternoon talk shows. Called "Steals and Deals [NBC], MorningSave [CBS], or "View Your Deal [ABC]," lately it seems every talk show has a daily segment devoted to so-called bargains. But, why are all the talk shows hyping products? 

Product placements provide a steady income stream by driving product sales. Retailers benefit by reaching a wider audience, and television networks rely heavily on advertising revenue to pay for the production of their shows, which is why we are subjected to TV commercials.

Photo: GMA

Nowadays television hosts including news readers, meteorologists, and medical doctors regularly join product promotors in the demonstrations of 5 or 6 products claimed to be offered at a discount during the show.

If viewers buy the featured products the talk shows get commissions (a cut of each sale) or affiliate sales revenue for driving viewers to buy the products.

Yet, I'll confess, I'm getting tired of them. It's beginning to feel like the home shopping network is taking over talk shows and we're watching infomercials disguised as program segments. The featured products are fairly random from skincare to cooking or exercise equipment and clothing. Usually, we're given 24 hours to go to a specially set up website for the network (which tracks the sales) to grab a deal.

Photo: The Today Show

Although I understand the appeal of some of the products, I've never taken the bait because I'm not an impulse buyer. I can see getting caught up in the enthusiasm of the promoters who are hawking discounts, but I wonder how many viewers have buyer's remorse after receiving their goods? The prices seem reasonable enough, but if consumers wait a beat, would they still need or want the merchandise in the 1st place? 

Let's discuss further:

Are television audiences bombarded by sales pitches coming into their living rooms spending more than they should?

And lastly, is the line between journalists and promotors on GMA, CBS Mornings, and The Today Show getting blurred? Is replacing genuine content with selling commodities ruining talk and morning news shows? Certainly, a show's attempts to make money must be balanced by offering viewers substance of value.

What are your thoughts?

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5 Things I Love But Won't Buy

THE SAVVY SHOPPER is a lifestyle blog that focuses on good decision-making on a budget. It requires that we ask ourselves, do we need the item or simply want it. Why are we tempted to buy it? When an article makes our lives happier, easier, or better, often we should buy it. But if what we have works, maybe we should let "it" go. Moreover, sometimes we should buy the top of the line, and at other times we could settle for good enough to have funds left to cover emergencies or more important things in life.

I'm always tempted by compact, lightweight, or newer things even if what I already own works and is good enough! Let me give you a few examples:

1) The Ankarsum Original Stand Mixer (see top image) - It's a Swedish-designed mixer that is powerful and well-made. But I can't justify spending a whopping $749.95 for a mixer when my 2024 Hamilton Beach 6 Speed Hand Mixer does everything I need it to do. My hand mixer for less is compact and powerful too, and I can't claim that holding it is inconvenient or tiring. So I think it's the idea of a stand mixer being so compact that entices me. But at the end of the day, my hand mixer will hurt less to replace when one day in the future, it dies, so I prefer to admire rather than own the Ankarsum mixer. (BTW: A 30-year-old $12 Black & Decker handheld mixer would still be running strong if I hadn't stuck a fork in cake batter that snagged and broke one of the beater holders.)

2) Uniqlo's Seamless Down Coat - Regular readers of this blog know I love Uniqlo's basics and the Seamless Down Coat is no exception. I already own a different Uniqlo coat, the Ultra Light Down Long Coat which keeps me warm and toasty in winter so the reason I'm passing is I just don't need a new coat. I can't buy clothes every time I see something I love as there'd be no room in my closets. Both Uniqlo coat styles are beautiful coats for the money. The Seamless is a tad warmer for those of you who live in Boston or Chicago. The Ulta Light Down Coat is warm enough for New York City winters. On the coldest below zero day, I wear a sweater underneath mine. Still, the Uniqlo Seamless Down Coat is sooo gorgeous that the id in me wants to run right out to buy one!

3) I love lean tall leather boots with flat heels for comfort like these Stuart Weitzman boots. Already I have at least 5 pairs of boots of different heights that I don't wear much, therefore, I have put myself on a boot diet! Boots always catch my eye when I'm in a shoe department. Always tempting me, but once I own them I find them to be more constricting than other shoes and don't reach for them. Sometimes you just have to know yourself and stop collecting! Five is my boot limit to stop buying them!

4) Don't get me started on Apple devices. Not cheap and we can't keep up with the newest and greatest operating systems. So I don't replace my laptops, iPads, or iPhones until what I already own coughs and dies. Enough said.

5) Corelle Dinnerware - A topic I addressed in a previous blog. With a do-over, I'd buy a set of 8? or 12? Corelle dinnerware to save space in my cupboard instead of the heavier stoneware I have. I've become addicted to maximizing space, yet not enough to replace a perfectly good set of dishes for a new set of Corelle Dinnerware.

What are you tempted to replace that you know you shouldn't?

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Two Mini Sweet Potato Pies

Photo: Etsy

A few days ago I had one can of sweet potatoes I didn't know what to do with because ... well we don't eat canned sweet potatoes. So I used it to make two 4" mini sweet potato pies for Thanksgiving. The small pies are enough for 4 servings. The trouble is on Sunday night my mother and I took one of the pies out of the refrigerator and ate it! Why? Because they were made too far in advance of Thanksgiving.:) The pie was delicious and not too sweet, so I'm posting my recipe below.

Full-sized pie with fresh microwaved sweet potato

To make a full-sized pie, simply double all the ingredients, beginning with the crust. For example, use 28 oz - 29 oz (2 cans or 2 full cups fresh, cooked, and mashed) sweet potatoes: 

So let's begin with the crust ... 

No Fail Flaky Vinegar Pie Crust (Double this recipe for a 9-inch pie.)

Ingredient:

1 cup all-purpose flour

1/4 cup (4 tablespoons) of cold butter, sliced and diced quickly to keep it cold

A pinch of salt
1 teaspoon cider vinegar (the flaky crust’s secret ingredient. Vinegar slightly retards gluten to keep the crust from toughening.)
3 tablespoons ice-cold water

Directions:

1) Combine all the ingredients in a mixing bowl and form into a ball. (Since I made 2 small pies, I divided my dough into 2 small balls.) Refrigerate the dough for 30 minutes or more.

2) With a rolling pin, roll the dough flat on a floured surface and fit it onto your buttered pie pan(s). 

3) Using a fork, poke holes all over the dough to release air during baking so it doesn't bubble.

Source: Taste of Home

Sweet Potato Pie Filling (Remember to double the filling for a 9" pie)

1 14-ounce can of sweet potatoes (or about 1 1/2  cups of cooked, softened, and mashed fresh sweet potato)

1 egg

1/4 tablespoon dark brown sugar

2 tablespoons milk

1 tablespoon of cottage cheese

1/2 teaspoon of vanilla extract

1/8 teaspoon of ground cinnamon

1/8 teaspoon of nutmeg

A light sprinkle of Allspice

A pinch of salt

Optional: 1 tablespoon of butter (for additional creaminess and flavor. I left it out to save calories. You decide for yourself.:)

Directions:

1) Using an electric mixer combine all the ingredients in a mixing bowl for about 2 minutes or until smooth. I didn't miss the butter but you can put it in for extra creaminess and flavor.

2) Pour into your waiting prepared pie dough-lined pan(s).

3) Bake in a preheated 400-degree F oven for 50 - 60 minutes. (Mini pies take about as much baking time as full-sized pies.)

Photo: LSU AgCenter

Some recipes call for more sugar and butter in the filling, but my first homemade mini 4" sweet potato pies turned out so delicious, I'll lighten up my recipe again! We had no trouble eating the lesser caloric pies. Now what will we do if we have to share our 2nd mini pie with an unexpected guest who drops by? I suppose we'll offer it to our guest? Baking in advance of a holiday doesn't always pay off.😛

🍁Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

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Macy's Button Pearls Are A Steal

Compare Macy's 8 mm pink button pearls (left) next to my ivory round 7 mm and 10 mm pearls.

In the 1990s, advances in the pearl industry made pearls, the only gemstone created by a living organism, affordable to ordinary people. In earlier eras, only royalty could afford a string of pearls, but today we no longer have to go deep diving, a dangerous endeavor, to find the Queen of Gems and the Gem of Queens in mollusk shells in the ocean. Now pearl farmers grow cultured pearls on freshwater and saltwater pearl farms bringing the production of pearls way up and the costs way down. 

A comparable occurrence is now happening in the diamond, emerald, ruby, and sapphire industries with lab-grown gemstones, and this Lover of Gemstones can't wait for the prices of lab-created diamonds, emeralds, rubies, and sapphires to hit rock bottom!!! With future industry improvements, we'll be able to buy bigger, cleaner, vivid-colored gemstones for far less moola! It's thrilling, count me in!💎

Meanwhile, there are still bargains to find! Every year Macy's offers its 8 mm - 9 mm button pearl earrings with sterling silver posts for $6. Since round earrings are the most popular pearl shape, buying button pearls (dome-shaped) is nearly always cheaper. Yet in your ears, you get the same effect as round ... classic and cute. Expect to buy bigger button pearls for less money. This annual Black Friday offering is especially good, so on Monday, I bought my Mamma a pair of pink button pearl earrings. They are also available in ivory, grey, and black. Many customers order all 4 hues during Macy's Black Friday sales since the price is so low. BTW: These are the 4 pearl colors found in nature. The color of a pearl in nature is determined by the lip of the mollusk.

A criticism I have about these earrings is my universal complaint. Jewelers are skimping on hardware. Nowadays the backs of earrings are so slight wearers are afraid of losing their earrings. The back closures could be more substantial. It takes nimble fingers to put them in your ears. Although slim backs are less than ideal, for sure $6 for real pearl earrings is a steal!

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